Monthly Archives: October 2013

I’ll Pick You Up at the Door [31 Days of Mental-Pause]

There are some days I meet with my girlfriends and I just adore them and that time together.  It’s a double win day when my little guy and his fast friend get together for some play time.

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This morning he was walking the dog when I went out to the car. My cell phone was flatlining and needed to be charged asap, so the car was calling (me since no one else could). Ha, ha!

I plugged in and smiled as I watched my very own Dennis the Menace make his trail around the yard, sidewalk and road with his dog. That kid has fun no matter what he’s doing!  While I was waiting for him to return from inside, I backed out the car so I could pick him up at the door more closely.  His little face fell in panic as he watched the car in reverse climb the driveway slope.  I smiled and nodded affirmation that he was coming with me and that I wasn’t leaving him.

Trudging along the sidewalk I could tell I was in trouble. “MOM! You scared me to death. I thought you were leaving me.”

Click. Seatbelt fastened and I said, “You know I wasn’t leaving  you. Although it looked like it was a bad thing for you, I was really just getting in a better position to pick you up at the door.”

I totally understood my son’s wrong conclusion. I am always getting  my own thoughts and perceptions in the way of what God is really doing! What looks to be a roadblock to me so often is really just the Lord orchestrating my life the way He wills it. I’ll pick you up at the door.  I’ll have to remind myself of this, a lot.

Is 55:7…Let the wicked forsake his way And the unrighteous man his thoughts; And let him return to the LORD, And He will have compassion on him, And to our God, For He will abundantly pardon. “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,” declares the LORD. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.…

One Of Those Days [31 Days]

It’s been one of those days. Nothing was really wrong, and nothing particularly great, just a blah day.   Weirdly (why is it i before e except after c and when it says ‘a‘ as in neighbor and weigh, and then there’s WEIRD?), anyway-weirdly enough there’s been a lot of good in today, yet a very long one anyway.

I’m going to do what every strong woman does after one of those days and go jump in a hot bathtub, dive into a good book and go to bed.

So grateful that even on, or especially grateful on, those days Christ is my all in all.   I need to work on my all-in-all part.

Answering the scribe’s question, Jesus says this is the greatest commandment:

Matthew 12:30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.

I hope someone can relate. If it’s you, a hot bath and all-in-all seeking and giving might be in order.  <3  Sweet Dreams, Friends!

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(I totally realize that those of you who are clear minded at this moment have no idea why I just posted a photo of pig parts here. Well, I <3 pigs. They make me happy! 🙂  Now my happy self and I are off for the night.

 

HIT by the DIY Craze [31 Days of Mental-Pause]

I LOVE CRAFTING!  I’ve loved it since I was a young girl. Dad and I would craft, glue, cut, sand and create for hours and then we’d go to craft shows to sell. Thinking back on all that, I’m not sure if we were there mostly for the selling or more for the visiting Dad got to do with the new people he’d meet and the old friends who would come by. Either way, so many great memories of both making and selling are mine while my mind holds them.

My photography business is a lot of work and takes most of my ‘free’ (free?) time, but in my heart are other undeniable yearnings. Writing, for one, and crafting for another. My girlfriend encouraged me a few months ago not to sell of my scrapbooking supplies, which largely resemble a small store by now, that I was advertising to come. I’m SO glad she saved me from making that mistake!  Now, here I am Hit by the DIY Craze once again.  Along with my camera and all that brings, I’m spending some time letting my brain relax by finding some new dyi things to keep my fingers busy and my heart happy.

Yesterday I made a wreath that I can see a lot of use for, but right now I’m thinking about Christmas. Can’t you see these hanging in the middle of your windows with a battery operated candle illuminated below? Or, how about tied in a bright ribbon and hung in front of the mirrors in your home? I threw mine on my curtain so it had some backdrop of color to show off its delicacy, and I love it here, too! (excuse the cellphone pic quality)

Oh, they’d be so beautiful for weddings. <3  Easy as pie to make with any wreath you can find (foam, straw…), coffee filters and a glue gun. Where can you see these hanging in your home?  I think I’ll be making some for an upcoming craft show. Yay!

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The I’s Have It [31 Days of Mental-Pause]

Scrolling through my facebook feed just now, minus the baseball news,  all that’s there is  a lot of posts starting with “I.”

I want

I need

I did

I was

I will

I can

I don’t

I, I, I, I…

Two verses come to mind:

 

Galatians 2:20

I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live;

yet not I,

but Christ lives in me:

and the life which I now live in the flesh

I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.

Exodus 3:13-14

And Moses said unto God, Behold, when I come unto the children of Israel, and shall say unto them, The God of your fathers hath sent me unto you; and they shall say to me, What is his name? what shall I say unto them? And God said unto Moses,

I AM THAT I AM:

and he said, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel,

I AM

hath sent me unto you.

We are a needy people. God is our I AM. Whatever our own current  “I…” statement includes, God is still and will always be, I AM.

Deceived, Lovingly [31 Days]

 

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When you teach school, especially English in the upper grades, it’s like you’re on high-alert for things like plagiarism, and order-or logical thought in the written presentation.  The (many) times I was given a paper to grade that wasn’t written in context of one thing or another (the assignment, the topic, the presentation), I had to tell my student that this wasn’t acceptable because although separately these things might make sense, the way they were put together and presented did not.  Sometimes it was no small thing for them to understand that the information had to be both accurate in word and  in order. Like misplaced or omitted punctuation, piecing together things that weren’t meant to be together changed everything, and not with integrity. It’s not an easy message to share, and I am ok with standing alone if need be, and I’d imagine my inbox won’t be filled with flowers and chocolates 😉  but it’s one that needs to be voiced and considered by those whose hearts are longing to know Christ.

Standing outside by my car after a long night of inservice, I remember once having a discussion with our pastor and principal regarding school, students, classes and the like. While referring to the way I handled my work and the people I worked with he said, “You’ve always been a seeker of truth.”

That statement was unusual in the way that it was at once both heavy and uplifting.  In itself, it was a hard truth. Life, in many situations and times, would have been (and be) so much simpler and easy going if I just would let things go that others don’t give a second thought to. But it’s not like I dissect every word; I don’t. However, it’s not uncommon for words to strike me as curious.  Curious in the weight of scales and balances of THE Truth vs Presented  truth.

I have piles of Bible Studies I bought based on their description, but once I dug in and started them, the Spirit didn’t give me freedom in what was written on the pages. So off on what could be considered a rabbit trail of sorts I’d go. Again, seeking the truth from God’s Word. His whole Word, not just a verse pulled out here and there. That is a red-flag to me. Very rarely can you take a single verse and have it stand alone, unless, of course, you’re having it meet your own food-for-thought.   (If you’re reading this and were part of my youth ministries of the past, you might realize that it was always just the Bible Troy and I used as our guide to discipleship and study. I’m so thankful to have had this in my life for so long and to learn from the Lord’s words what IS -and is not- truth.) It’s not just one popular author who falters on theology and scatters Scripture to make it say what SHE is saying –with a loving smile and all-no, we’re getting this more and more. Christian women are being deceived, lovingly, and they don’t even know it!

My heart sank as I read the words from a younger sister in Christ in reference to a group Bible study we were doing in a group together, she went on to explain her perspective,  “…so we don’t need anyone teaching us or telling us anything…”   Crazy! Doing a Bible study with older women who have grown in Christ over the years, and she wanted to be sure there would be no teaching  to her about  God  or His ways in our lives as Christian women.  Is there a place to learn from those women who have intentionally built their lives in Christ, who are seeking Him and walking with Him? I think  the answer is a resounding YES!  (Titus 2:3-5)  It was the first time I had seen such a strong rebelliousness in the heart of a grown woman.  The thing that hurt my heart the most was that here again was a woman who said she knew the Lord yet had not made it a practice in her own life to KNOW.  There she stood without any, or with very little, depth to the foundation of Christ, the Gospel and the Word.

We live in a world where Christian music overtakes the Bible as truth. As recently as this week I heard someone refer to music lyrics as something to be held in line with what God’s spirit penned. She didn’t even realize it!  Christian authors paint beautiful pictures fancied with all the prim and proper of what sounds good to our ears and is acceptable socially. Speakers are pretty to look at a a delight to hear. Parts of what they say -and say in a way that’s so easy to listen to and very easy to stand along side with-we’ve heard in sermons or read in scriptures–parts, and there enlies the problem.  We don’t know God’s Word enough to decipher which is which, and those of us who do are screaming on the inside: THAT’S NOT TRUTH.

In a most basic platform, it’s quite simple.  Like a paper written from an disorderly high school student, some of these highly favored Bible study author/speakers are taking things out of context-at times, right from the beginning of each segment.  When you see someone present God’s Word coupled with their thoughts, especially if they’ve isolated a verse here and a verse there, go read it in context. Who is it written to, what is it really about, and what’s the context?  Yes, that’s what that verse says and that’s even what that other verse says over there, but what is concluded her is…out of context, deceived lovingly. Simple stuff.  Most scripture is written in passages, go read them. Scripture supports scripture!  While this is a warning to those who are not solid in their theology and who twist scripture to make their point, there are great women authors who have studied God’s Word and who write Bible study guides wisely and well.  They might be low on bells and whistles, but it is real, solid truth where they’re concerned. One such author is Kay Arthur.  And there are others.

Now, remember that stack of Bible studies I referred to earlier? They’re in a discard pile. We’re on a slippery slope, Sisters. To know the Lord, to know His Word,  we have to be walking with no known sin in our lives and hearts,  in communion with Him through His Word  and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in and through us. In the meantime, wait on Him.

 

Romans 16: 17 Now I urge you, brethren, keep your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them.  18 For such men are slaves, not of our Lord Christ but of their own appetites; and by their smooth and flattering speech they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting.…

 

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