Monthly Archives: September 2013

Chesterfield Berry Farm Pumpkins [Midlothain VA Photographer]

I think we found The Great Pumpkin!!  We had a great time with the Chesterfield Berry Farm Pumpkins today.

We started the day with a parking spot that couldn’t be closer to the gates if we had camped out there all night. Normally, I love walking and could care less about a parking spot, but today it  would be just myself and my 9 year old carrying back the pumpkins from the patch. I feared he’d pick out one larger than we could both carry and closer to the car was a much better option than 1/2 mile across the lot.

The car parked next to us was using the ‘loading/unloading zone’ as opportunity to put on her daughter’s socks, and shoes, and jacket. And, well, my guy was in the back of the car waiting to unload and biting at the bit to get this party started.

Instead of getting frustrated, I decided to jump out  and at the risk of interfering with her dressing room,  😉  I carefully unleaded the big guy. As I was getting my camera ready, I asked the woman next to us, “Does everyone have their free admission tickets?”

We had been collecting some from the Chesterfield Berry Farmer’s Market with our bi-weekly shopping trips in hopes that the group of us would be able to go, but it was just my son and I after all.  She said, “What? No!  We’re just here and have no idea what it’s going to cost (that would be about $20 each). So, I was able to start the morning by giving her the six extra we had. I’m so thankful because there were 11 of them altogether and I don’t believe they had planned on this pumpkin excursion costing them over $200!

Deciding to head for the Great Pumpkin himself, first, we loaded up on the hayride wagon and headed out. What a great time. As we rode and enjoyed this gorgeous day the Lord had given us I leaned down to my son and told him I took this ride for the first time 26 years ago. A lot of great memories of my class field trips and family trips since, but not one was as special as this one-just N and I.

Our farmer-driver dropped us off in the lane on the right side of the pumpkin patch. We then ran over to the left side of the patch, of course. You’ll see which pumpkin he decided to keep; there were many that got the exclamation, THIS ONE! Usually that was a false alarm.  Suddenly he was ready to load back up and head to the rest of the fun, and despite my assurance of not having to run to catch ‘that tractor and this time,’ we waited. And waited. And survived the wait, but we didn’t do anything else, but wait, and wait in case we’d be distracted and miss the next one. We didn’t!

Any five pumpkins were $19.99 and let me tell you what a deal that is IF and when my husband and oldest son were with us, but they weren’t.  So, we took our two carefully picked pumpkins to the scale and cashier. Less than $5.00. Can  you believe it? Free tickets, all the fun, 2 pumpkins and not even 5 dollars for the date.  Again, the Lord put in my path someone who I could help in a tiny way. Poor young girl working the registers had been stung twice by a bee. I felt sad for her; they really hurt!  N and I were heading to the car to put in the pumpkins, and I happened to have bee-sting cream in my first-aid box so I could help out that gal a bit. Again, thankful to walk the path the Lord has me on and thankful He is working in my life that I pay attention to others around me.

Straight ahead now and at a faster clip, we’re off to the hay, corn, chickens, cows (my boy is such a city boy-you’ll see!!) and PIGS. I love pigs. I LOVE PIGS.  Sadly, they had already raced and were in a pig-house with tall windows, so I couldn’t really talk with them much. But I did get to see them a little. Did I mention that I love pigs?

In the middle of all this fun, there was a scare house. A couple of the actors were on the outside: an evil, scary clown and a wolf. And you know what? Even though he didn’t want to go IN or NEAR that house, my son was intrigued. So much so, that he was a bit deceitful  in order to go out of our way and back that way to see it again. There have been many times in my life that I wished I didn’t have such discernment when it comes to others being honest with me, but for the sake of my son’s character development, I’m forever thankful the Lord has given me this gift.  We talked about how easy it is for the world to trick us into its ways, and even without our desires being in sync with its message, we all too easily fall victim to the work of the world and are torn from God’s truths.  It was a great teaching moment for both my son and myself.

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Coming or Going? [Dear Sister]

My heart is both enlightened and burdened as I sit here this morning with my coffee. On my way out, the sun was rising in the background of my first turn. Stopped in my tracks on the road, I took out my trusty iphone and snapped a photo. Why? Its beauty, its light, its morning promise was inspiring and humbling. Getting to my “Friday Office” (uh-hmm, Starbucks),  I sat down and read some verses as I waited on my skinny mocha/peppermint latte’.  Always, God’s Word is truth. When I’m willing and obedient, it’s also very personal; who am I that the Lord of all creation loves me so? Again, I’m humbled.

Coffee in hand, ahhhh, I see some other blogs, fb status updates, cries for help, shouts of questions and, the one that just plummets my heart to the ground hardest, acclamations of God’s character, direction or commandments (and lack thereof) based and scripted, not on scripture, but rather  on personal thoughts, feelings and self-seeking satisfactions in the Lord.    Oh, I want to cry!

I can hear and see so many people lining up and subscribing to these blogs with a hardy AMEN. Why does that burden my heart?  It’s not truth.  Does it sound good? YEP.  Is it inspirational. Sure! Is it truth? Nope.  I cringe.  There IS absolute truth in God’s Word. It’s there.  Truth is all throughout scripture, but it’s not always easy to hear truth and it’s not often flattering to others’ egos to share it when we could share words that get the emotions in our beings flaring instead. God’s Word can be offensive. We want feel-good. God’s Word can be sharp. We want comfort, always. God’s Word is complete. We want gaps to fill in with our own surmise.

Ephesians 5:6 Let no one deceive you with empty arguments, for God’s wrath  is coming on the disobedient because of these things. 7 Therefore, do not become their partners. 8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light  — 9 for the fruit of the light results in all goodness, righteousness, and truth — 10 discerning what is pleasing to the Lord.

Goodness, righteousness and truth.  

This is where I was going to wrap things up, but you wouldn’t believe what I’m sitting here overhearing in conversation behind me. Two beautiful women are talking about another woman’s Christian walk. They’re Believers, from what I can gather…and what’s the issue? “She doesn’t allow her children to XYZ, while I know that the Bible does support her decisions, I just don’t like to do things like that. It’s totally normal and ok for the kids to do those things.” Gulp. I’m sure I’ve been there too.  But God.

That photo I snapped this morning? The one full of promise for the day, as it turns out, makes a muddle of which way I was going. It’s sort of hard to distinguish the right way-or which path I was really on.  Was I coming or going? Our lives are often the same miss-mash of direction, but as Christian women, it should not be.

That IS the hard truth.

God says there are ways are pleasing to Him, and ways that are pleasing to the world.    10 discerning what is pleasing to the Lord. 

We say, it’s not wrong. Everyone, most other Christians even, do it too.

God says, 10 discerning what is pleasing to the Lord. 

We say, even if in the still small voice of our own minds,  things like~ prove to me it’s wrong. I won’t be judged for this little thing, it’s not going to hurt me, it’s not going to harm my children, it’s completely innocent, fun and frivolous…and the Bible doesn’t say…

God says, Romans 12:12

And be not conformed to this world: but be you transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

con·form

[kuhn-fawrm]  Show IPA

verb (used without object)

1.

to act in accordance or harmony; comply (usually followed by to  ): to conform to rules.
2.

to act in accord with the prevailing standards, attitudes, practices, etc., of society or a group: One has to conform in order to succeed in this company.
3.

to be or become similar in form, nature, or character.
4.

to be in harmony or accord.
(dictionary.com)

Dear Sisters, let’s search the Lord’s will and be not conformed. Let’s dare to BE Christ on earth and be approved by Him, that He may have free reign IN our lives, not just through them. Being a Christian is not a sector of life, it is our every breath and our very life.
I’m praying this for my own life today, and for yours.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and if you have something you’d like me to pray for specifically, leave me a comment or send me a message-it would be a privilege.
Coming or Going

Life.Camera.Shoot. [Midlothian Photographer]

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